Showing posts with label mother's day. Show all posts
Showing posts with label mother's day. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 11, 2011

Mother's Day Brunch


It's okay if you think I look like a monkey. Because my family and I already know that truth. My mother looks beautiful, even in a handkerchief.


I love my mother and grandmothers. I love my mother-in-law too! It's so wonderful to be able to have such loving, supportive and helpful women in my life. I am proud to be their daughter. To show them my love I decided this year I would give them a special brunch. I wish my MIL and Tyler's grandma's could have been here too!

After I had seen this lovely brunch set-up on a favorite blog I realized that I could create a simplified version! My mom was already in town for the weekend to arrange flowers for my cousins wedding. It was perfectly timed. And I already live next door to my grandma, like across the driveway! Here is a photo from our adjoining yard. Sadly this lilac tree is no longer here. The roots weren't strong enough to handle my 6 year old monkey.

I quickly ran to Sunflower Market to buy some fresh fruit on Friday night. I asked my mom, who was quietly reading a novel, if she could watch my two oldest while I took the little one to the store. Sadly, though, I didn't think I'd be gone more than 40 minutes while the make-ahead manicotti was baking in the oven. My mom had no idea it was in there and in my haste I forgot to look at the time when I left so I didn't call her to check on it. Needless to say now we're stuck eating dried up crusty leftovers. Such is life.

So anyway, back to the brunch. I invited my mom and grandma over (sorry Aunt Claudia, I'm afraid we had while you were in Church. Jocelyn specifically asked for you!) along with Jocelyn. Cecily was sleeping.


I loved the citrus theme. It felt so summery. I gave up the idea of sleeping in and woke up and got to work. This day is a day I wished I had two ovens. I thought about using my grandma's but I didn't want to to spoil any my surprise!


The menu consisted of homemade quiche (and I made the shell this time!), orange rolls (Rhodes with zest and glaze added), poppy seed bread and citrus drop cookies.

We ate outside on my Grandma's patio. It was perfectly warm and we had a lovely and brief time chatting and eating. Two of my favorite things to do! And with some of my best friends!




All in all, my Mother's day was grand. After this brunch I managed to quickly (and not very motherly-like) get the children ready for Church. They were pretty well behaved. They both came home from Primary with two cute cards. The men served us ice cream too! That was fun and different. Then Tyler made dinner and cleaned up. He even mopped! You can hardly tell now but it was a much needed (and avoided) task by me! I've been reading a book called, I am a Mother and I am loving it. (Thanks Lori!) It's nice to hear a true perspective from a woman who, in some eyes, "had it all" with a very successful career in TV but gave it all up to be a mother. Honestly, some days are a struggle for me. I wonder why I chose this path. And some days I am NOT very good at it. But the few moments that my children give me hugs or write me love notes or say they don't want to go to an orphanage (gee, I wonder whey they would ever think of that??), makes up for the harder times. I think one day I will miss the crumbs underneath every kitchen chair, or the smudge marks on all the walls and surfaces. At least they are there. It means that none of us are perfect, and it's a good reminder that I have the blessing to be a mother.

Monday, May 17, 2010

Mother's Day

I had a lovely Mother's Day weekend.

It started on Friday when I was able to buy this robe from DownEast for $20, typically $80 from Restoration Hardware. I've been waiting for a sale on a terrycloth robe. It has to be terrycloth, call me old fashioned, but I don't think those plush robes, as soft as they are, absorb the water. They repel it! Anyway, my waiting paid off! I always love a good deal.

Then on Saturday we watched Samuel's first T-ball game. That's a riot to watch.

After the game we headed down to Mt P to be with my mom. Our whole family was there except Jennie and Grant who are still living in India. It was fun to be able to relax, tell Tyler "no" when he wanted me to play sous-chef and eat, talk and play, as usual.

My dad took some photos a few days before that I gave to all of my mothers!





Monday, May 11, 2009

Mother's Day

So there are 3 ways that I can interpret Mother's Day.

The first would be like this. A celebratory holiday where I think mostly of myself. I demand the kids be perfect, breakfast in bed, husband duties of putting the kids in bed, feeding them, etc, etc and then I can use the "Mother's Day" card any time I'd like throughout the day. And then I spoil myself with gifts :)

The second like this. A time of reflection. I can call my mom, grand-mother's and mother-in-law. I can remember what it was like to be living with my mom. I can recall the learning experiences I gained from them. I can reflect on how much I love them and why. And then push myself to be more like them. And then thank them for all they've done for me.



The third is this. I can remember how much I enjoy being a mother. I can try to be patient all day. Enjoy playing with my kids. Watch their birthing videos (okay, maybe that's pushing it--ha!). Enjoy bathing, feeding and putting them to bed. Being grateful that I brought them to the earth and realize what a blessing they truly are to me.

Well, in the perfect world I think it could be a combination of all three. And if I say that then I should conclude that this Mother's Day was like this. It was a fairly ordinary day. We said farewell to Tyler's family (the whole lot was in town this weekend for Tyler's graduation-which I'll blog about later) and then headed down to Mt. P to my parents. I surprised my mom by organizing her freezer. I gave her earrings similar to these from here:



and I gave my MIL a perfect plate from this shop that I discovered at the Piper & Chloe boutique this weekend.

But all in all, it was no different than any other. I got to give gifts and feel the joy in that. And I was able to remember my wonderful little cherubim.

Happy Mother's Day to all my mothers! I love you!