Well, it has been two weeks since my bout of depression and to be honest, I am not completely normal. I think it's mainly due to lack of excitement for life. Not being able to act in a show right now. I am just struggling to find balance b/w work, personal desires, family life, housekeeping and other hobbies. But since I suggested Tyler read that other blog (which he normally doesn't do) he has helped out. At first, he was a little upset that he looked like the bad guy. But he has helped around the house even w/o me having to ask him! whoa! That surprises me. And when I do ask for help he doesn't groan.
So thank you for all of your wonderful advice. It really helped. First to know that I have friends who care enough to be honest. And secondly, your advice helped me...and others too! Those who read them have been enriched by what you shared also.
But back to Tyler. He is a renaissance man. That is why I married him. He is so talented. The only difference b/w him and Vincent Van Gogh (the ultimate renaissance man) is that he doesn't paint. But he does pretty much everything else. He cooks, sings, plays musical instruments, teaches, plays and watches sports, plays games of all kinds, loves children and playing w/them, he's neat and clean, he speaks 3 languages (and 2 dead ones), he loves to learn. He is talented and keeps me on my toes. He is honest w/me and I appreciate that! I do love him for the fact that he makes me a better person. I only hope we can keep on doing that together. Making each other better. Bringing out the best and not the worst.
That was a cute post. I like hearing people say nice things about their husbands. :) (Heaven knows we've got plenty of not nice things to say about them.) He he he.
ReplyDeleteWhat a sweet post! I'm glad you're getting some more help. Life IS a great balancing act, and sometimes I feel like if I drop one thing I drop everything. Just remember you're doing your best, and that's all you can do. (And it's a pretty dang good job!)
ReplyDeleteHow did you get it to send an email when you posted? YEAH for coming out here! From when to when?
ReplyDeleteWe all understand how it is to feel that sort of love them and get mad at them sort of thing. No one is holding it against Tyler. We just want him to love you perfectly all of the time. Is that too much to ask?? ;)
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